Certainly, Han prepared himself for the very distinct possibility that Ben's answer could have been 'no' and yet, it still stung when he scoffed and said as much anyway. Jumbled memories or not, it probably said something about the kind of parents he and his wife were to Ben.

"From a house or a ship?" He asks out of offhand curiosity more than any other reason. If he wasn't there, he likely wasn't going to remember that particular moment.